The holidays are upon us. And it couldn’t come at a more needed time. For some of us personally, including myself, we have seen loss this year that touches us deeply and the holiday spirit of giving, sharing and family love couldn’t come at a better time. It’s a holiday, one of two Christian holidays, that have become universally celebrated, one for Jesus birth and the other his crucifixion, with Christmas growing more to become more broad based as a celebration of winter itself and a weirdly dressed man in a red suit with a beard sliding down chimneys than the other where you may take your kids to an Easter egg hunt or stage one yourself but that doesn’t connect you to its religious roots. Christmas is different. In…